Getting started with a virbator - for women

Quite simply all you need to know about how to use a vibrator is ""Do What Feels Good"". Now that's a simplified answer and you'll find that lots of things feel good with a vibrator. A vibrator is designed specifically to stimulate you or you and your lover and it does a great job. It's the perfect tool for masturbation but I personally recommend you don't leave it at that. Using your vibrator with your lover is a fun way to heighten the sexual intensity for you both.

OK now for a little more direct advice on using you vibrators. Let's start with external stimulation.

Since you are reading this I'll assume you're a new vibrator owner or considering purchasing your first. Let me point out that a vibrator induced orgasm may be a little more intense than you are used to. You may even find you experience multiple orgasms while using your vibrator.

A vibrator can be used to stimulate any external part of the body you like. When you get a new vibrator start experimenting. Play with the features it has like speed control vibration patterns and so on. It's a good idea to get the feel of your vibrator before diving right onto your most sensitive areas. Also decide if you are going to use lubricant. Lube can be a great help if you like moving the vibrator about a lot. Don't just lie on your back; try a variety of positions such as lying on your stomach sitting etc. If you find the vibrator too intense and it doesn't have a speed setting you like try using a towel to reduce the intensity.

If you choose a strap on clitoris vibrator these wonderful toys allow you to enjoy stimulation while having your hands free for other things! They are also wonderful while alone as you have your hands free to use another vibrator.

If you like your nipples stimulated then apply your vibrator here and enjoy. If you are a big fan I suggest trying vibrating nipple clamps as again this leaves your hands free to get on with pleasuring other areas of your body or your lovers body.

There are no set rules for how and where to use your vibrator. Just enjoy your vibrator anywhere it makes you feel good.

OK now for advice for using a vibrator for internal stimulation.

A vibrator can give a wonderful feeling of being filled and if you combine it with another vibrator on your clitoris or use a rabbit vibrator (one that can penetrate and stimulate your clitoris at the same time) your orgasm could be mind blowing. Experiment with depth and vibration speed. If your vibrator can change vibration patterns give them all a try. I always recommend using lubricant while inserting your vibrator; you will find the experience even more pleasurable.

G-spot designed vibrators are a lot of fun. I will mention that not all women seem to like G-spot stimulation. However I think this is often due to a full bladder so it's a good idea to make sure it is empty before hand. Checkout my G-spot info pages it if you want to know more details about your G-spot. The special curve of your G-Spot vibrator will help it reach the right spot. The best type of G-spot vibrator for you depends on the type of stimulation you like. Some women like fairly firm stimulation and even vigorous thrusting of the vibrator so a hard textured vibrator may be the key. I enjoy a fair amount of thrusting but with a softer texture so have a soft silicone rubber vibrator for the job. If you are new to playing with your G-spot you may find it is easier to reach using the vibrator from behind or squatting.

Another option for internal stimulation is the egg or bullet vibrator which comes in two forms these days wired or wireless. Simply insert the bullet or egg into the vagina and turn it on.

Lastly you have anal stimulation. The anus is a very sensitive area and while some people find it very enjoyable it should be pointed out that you should always use lots of lubricant as unlike other parts of your body it does not make natural lubrication. Start out slowly by just touching and stroking the outside. Once you are relaxed and feel ready insert the vibrator slowly. If you like moving it in and out start off slowly and increase the speed as you wish. A little caution if you like anal play I strongly recommend you purchase a vibrator just for anal play and don't share it with anyone. Also invest in proper cleaning products for your toys.

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Check out my advice for couples and men too.

Getting started with a vibrator for couples

Getting started with a vibrator for men