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Getting Started With a Vibrator - for Couples"
It may come as a surprise that vibrators are as much for couples as they are for solo times. Most women in fact do not or I should say can not reach orgasm with penetration alone. I hope you noticed I really tried to point out the fact that most women can not reach an orgasm with penetration alone. It's nothing to do with the lover's performance it's an anatomical design thing. So guys there is no need to feel bad threatened or inadequate. In fact if you deal with this issue you are only going to elevate yourself in our bedroom eyes. A vibrator can enhance even the healthiest sexual relationship. By using a vibrator on our clitoris it is much more likely we will reach orgasm every time. I strongly recommend all the guys out there learn how to use a vibrator correctly everywhere we like it and it will elevate you to orgasmic lover status! For couples the key to using a vibrator together is communication. If you're new to vibrators I recommend you start with a little personal experimentation first. Then try moving on to massaging each other with the vibrator this is a great way to get the communication working well before you dive into sexual stimulation. Take your time and learn what each other likes and if they dislike something. Learning your partner's preferences takes time as each person is different and will enjoy different speed settings vibration patterns and pressure. Trust me though once you learn it will make such a great impact on your sex life it will leave you wondering why you waited so long! A couple of basic tips to keep in mind are... 1. Not all vibrators are the same - start off slow and work up not the other way around 2. Lubrication will make the whole vibrator experience more pleasurable. 3. Don't leave the vibrator in one spot as this tends to numb the spot after a while so keep it moving slightly at least. 4. In case you don't know it most of a woman's pleasurable areas are located on the outside. A great way to start out with a vibrator during intercourse is by stimulating the clitoris. This will help bring her to orgasm and what an orgasm it will be. If she is up for it you could try for a multiple orgasm. The trick here is to back off the pressure around the clitoris after the first orgasm. Keep the vibrator moving in the general area but do not make direct contact with the clitoris wait until her sexual energy builds back up so she can go again. If your lover is a G-spot orgasm fan why not try stimulating her with the G-spot vibrator using a rear entry approach and then finish her off with intercourse doggie style. You may even just try starting out with a nice simple vibrating cock ring during intercourse. This is a great way to get started so easy and fun with hardly anything to go wrong. Don't just limit your vibrators play to intercourse; you can use a vibrator on your lover during oral sex. They are a great way to give you partner a little extra thrill and stimulation. Not just on the girls either my boyfriend loves it when I tickle his balls with my favourite vibrator. Another often overlooked technique is simply watching your lover masturbate with a vibrator. Men especially find watching a woman masturbate an extreme turn on and it has the added benefit of showing your lover how you like to use the vibrator. Once you have watched your lover masturbate a few times you could try doing it for them to see how much you have learned. Don't make the first time about trying to get them to cum just make sure they are enjoying themselves and go from there. Lastly you have anal stimulation. Anal play for couples can be very erotic and orgasmic. The anus is a very sensitive area and some people find it very enjoyable. You should always use lots of lubricant as unlike other parts of your body it does not make natural lubrication. Start out slowly by just touching and stroking the outside. Once you are relaxed and feel ready insert the vibrator slowly. If you like moving it in and out start off slowly and increase the speed as you wish. A little caution if you like anal play I strongly recommend you purchase a vibrator each just for anal play or at the very least use a condom on it if you are going to share. Also invest in proper cleaning products for your toys. Check out my advice for women and men too. " |
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