Foreplay

Foreplay it is a key element to great sex. If you master foreplay it will make you a sexual god. I kid you not. Lets be honest sex often does not last that long foreplay however can last hours days weeks and even months! If it goes on for years though someone is just being a tease. All joking aside foreplay could be the most important sexual skill to learn it is a fundamental part of the whole lovemaking experience.

All of my friends will agree the better the foreplay the better the sex. Guys if you have done it right we will be practically begging for it which should leave you feeling like a sex legend or god. Could you ask for anything better?

Let me emphasize this... There is no such thing as spending too much time on foreplay.

If you start the actual intercourse when both partners are fully aroused it has to be good.

Now foreplay includes an extensive range of activities. Now I'm going out on a limb here and some may disagree however this is my page and thoughts so here I go... seduction is the most powerful foreplay skill the one you can really drag out and that will yield the best result. Often thought of only during the first encounters with a new lover however this is not the case. Master seducing your lover and the rewards are great.

Ok enough about seducing your lover let talk about the basics... undressing kissing petting and oral sex. By no means complete but you get the idea feel free to add your own items to the list.

Now is a good time to point out the more time you spend on foreplay the more often the women will achieve orgasm. Most woman need prolonged stimulation in order to reach a orgasm so of course extended foreplay will provide them with the required arousal and make you a legend.

Foreplay is not a routine you go thru not a list of tasks to be performed. It is more an understanding of what makes your partner excited and arousing them so. Believe it or not the majority of ways you pleasure your lover are in the brain! While physical pleasure can not be denied if the brain is not in tune with the physical it will over ride it!

Make sure you have set the mood pay attention to detail if you will. Setting the right atmosphere is so often over looked; room temperature should be warm or even hot. Lighting subdued and the music just right. Don't just rip your partner's clothes off (well not every time) in fact leaving something on can be a great erotic inspiration. Kiss your partner all over and caress their entire body. You may be surprised to find areas that you never thought of as erotic arousing them. Often I am sad to report that a kiss is over looked. It's the first real physical signal that we give each other and as such is a powerful sexual delivery method. Keep this in mind during intercourse.. a kiss intensifies. Don't limit it just to their lips either. Now most of my girlfriends report that that their partners don't kiss long enough!

Don't be shy to experiment on every part of the body (for example many women enjoy particular kissing and nibbling attention to the neck and shoulders) remember to prolong the foreplay with more kissing and caressing.

Foreplay is also a great time to learn what your lover likes which without you will never understand what they really need to be fully stimulated.

Ask for feedback and also give your own. You will both gain so much from it. Communication you will see that word wherever you go for information on better sex. By the way communication is not just words if you don't have words then positively moaning and groaning will let your partner know they're proceeding in the right directions. Guide your partner physically with your own hands and encourage them to do the same to you.

Remember practice makes perfect well at least practice is fun!

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