Cunnilingus Basics

Right if you're just learning to go down on a women the first thing you need to know is that most women prefer a gentler more rhythmic touch than men. This makes the tongue a great tool for the job as it naturally produces about the right amount of pressure on the clitoris. While stimulation inside the vagina needs to be firmer it also requires more depth so you will find your fingers do a much better job at it.

I recommend using only the tongue and lips which may seem obvious but it is worth pointing out that the teeth should not be used since you don't have much feeling in them plus as the tissues are very sensitive down there one uncontrolled or uncontrollable body movement from her could cause a lot of pain and that's no good. Now that we are on that point fingernails can cause a problem also so keep them short and file them off with no rough edges and again it should go with out saying keep them clean.

If she really needs or wants harder pressure on her clitoris you could try using your lips rolled over your teeth to cover the surfaces (a technique used often in nipple stimulation).

The key area you are going to want to work is the clitoris. However some women do not like to have their clitoris directly stimulated as it can be too sensitive. You may also find it disappears under the hood during some stages of being aroused. In this case start stimulating the hood and labia (her lips) to indirectly get the clitoris stimulated. The labia are very sensitive themselves and can be a good place to start teasing her. Attempting to stimulate the vagina orally is both difficult and not overly effective; however it is nice for a little variety.

You have many types of stimulation options available to use. Your tongue used flat to broadly stroke areas or used pointed to flick and tease. Circular linear or any other motion can be applied. Sucking with the lips is one favourite of mine. Even the nose can provide some stimulation when the tongue is going about its thing a little lower down.

Blowing a stream of air at the right spot or breathing over the entire area (do not try to blow her up like a balloon it may be dangerous).

You should experiment to find out what works best for you and your partner. You will more than likely find that it changes at different levels of arousal. Light teasing at the start and lots of varied stimulation however once you have her going a steady rhythmic stimulation is going to best bring her to orgasm. You should pay attention to her responses to learn how much of each level she likes you don't want to change too fast nor do you want to press on after it has lost effectiveness.

Well I hope that gives you a little help and gets you off to a good start. If you put the effort in and show your partner a good time they are more than likely going to do the same for you. Lucy

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