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Clitoral Orgasm"
I find the clitoral orgasm to be amazing. It is intense and shaky compared with the other types of orgasms I achieve during intercourse. Also it is the easiest way I have an orgasm and my boyfriend has mastered pleasuring me this way. First you will need to find the right spot When you want to take her to sexual heights you will need your best friend the clitoris. It's not that hard to find still one can never have too much information and knowledge of a woman's body is your best tool. The clitoris is found just behind the inner vaginal lips it is hidden under the clitoris hood similar to the foreskin on the head of the penis. Now be a little careful getting under the hood as the clitoris is full of nerve endings so can produce discomfort as well as pleasure. Communicate This should go without saying and I am often surprised that my girlfriends fail here as much as their partners. Communication is the key for a successful sexual relationship and will help you get to the next level in pleasure. However it never fails to amaze me how bad we can be at it many women fear to talk about what they like sexually as well as guys. How to stimulate the Clitoris Again a word of caution to always keep in mind: ""The Clitoris is very sensitive"" treat it gently and with respect to get a great sexual experience and have her eating out of your hand. If stimulating the clitoris during intercourse your stimulation should be less intense than when focusing solely on the clitoris. Using your fingers to stimulate the clitoris Often my girlfriends tell me horror stories of having their clit given a buff and shine job like a car. Needless to say the boy's don't usually get a second chance down there. Now everybody is different and you should always take that into account for every sexual treat you are bestowing upon your lover. Some general guidelines while starting out will ensure you get ample practice. I think it is fair to say most woman do not like to have the head of the clitoris directly touched as it's just to sensitive. You will be much better off if you rub both sides of the clit hood using two fingers or use a small circular motion keep a constant pace and don't vary anything. Using your Mouth to stimulate the clitoris Most of my girlfriends and I certainly just love it when my boyfriend goes down on me. His tongue and lips just drive me wild. Again though remember not to be too aggressive. Start out on the sides again licking around the hood you have much more room to vary what you are doing down there with your mouth. Try licking the vaginal entrance up to the clit. I am sure you won't disappoint her. Using Sex Toys to stimulate the clitoris You can hardly go wrong with a sex toy designed to stimulate the clitoris. Designed with the clitoris in mind the results are mind blowing and if she had any apprehension about using sex toys they will soon disappear after a clitoris orgasm brought on from a clit sex toy. There are many different sex toys designed with the clit in mind the most common and a must have (in fact if you only have one sex toy make it) a vibrator that can stimulate the clit. There are an endless range from Egg or bullet animal-shaped pants wands and remote-controlled and the list goes on and on. One last tip don't overlook using lubricant with your toys. Unlike us humans toys don't make there own lubricant and it is not very nice being rubbed raw. So if you want to give her an earth shattering orgasm make sure you have a clit vibrator easily at hand next time you are making love. " |
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